"Worry often gives a small thing a great shadow."
-- Swedish Proverb
Last week was the end of a significant chapter in my life.
My time in Sweden has come to an end.
It all started back in the summer of 2005 in Winnipeg, Canada.
This was when my girlfriend Katinka was putting the finishing touches on her PhD thesis at the Unversity of Manitoba and finalizing the arrangements for her 1st post-doctoral position with Elzbieta Jankowska in Gothenburg, Sweden. Katinka's PhD supervisor in Winnipeg also did post-doctoral work with the same person in the same lab in Gothenburg 20-30 years ago!
Katinka left Canada for Sweden in late August of 2005 to start working and I soon followed arriving on November 1, 2005.
I arrived with a youth exchange visa which would allow me to stay in Sweden for up to 1 year and to work.
I came to Sweden with the notion that I would be able to at least get a job in a fitness club coaching or doing personal training. This is essentially what I was doing back in Canada and I felt I was pretty good at it.
In the first month being in Sweden, I must of sent out my CV to almost every gym in Gothenburg and the surrounding area. Not a single gym gave me a call!
This is going to be harder then I thought. But no worries, I have savings and Katinka is making enough salary to support me for at least a short period of time.
In the first month in Sweden, I did manage to get an invitation, which I accepted, to go down to Halmstad and tour the Eleiko head quarters. Eleiko is a world famous company that produces top notch weightlifting equipment and it is Swedish owned. Very nice people by the way, they gave me hope that I may find something.
Katinka being a former NCAA and pro basketball player started playing with a division 5 co-ed basketball team in Gothenburg. She landed on this team by way of the owner of the house we were renting. He plays on this team and when he heard Katinka played he quickly recruited her to his team. This is team is notorious for losing but when Katinka played they won every game.
I even participated in some of their practices .... inte bra!
Katinka was too good for this team but when she was coming to Sweden she wasn't even expecting to play basketball, she didn't even think it existed in Sweden (this is absolutely true!).
I was determined to find her a team that matched her abilities. A quick search on the web and I found Högsbo Basketball club. I sent an email and 2 days later we are at the club and Katinka is practicing with the Dam Laget team who play in the second highest division in Sweden.
This has all happened within the first few weeks of me being in Sweden and who would of known that one email to a club would be the start of a 3 year relationship.
Fast forward to the spring of 2006 and I start as a volunteer consultant to Högsbo Basketball club. The men's team has qualified to play in the highest division and the club needs to fill their weight room with some equipment.
In May, 2006 I begin to work with the men's team on a trial basis. After a couple of weeks the powers that be are happy with my work and hire me on as a part-time physical trainer (strength coach). In conjunction with the men's team I also work with the women's team and the basket gymnasiet program which is a high school basketball program. With these 3 programs, I am working at about 40-50%.
The next season (2006-07) is the premier for Gothia Basketball and we do very well, making it into the second round of the playoffs. The women's team also does very well finishing in the top 4.
At the end of this season I negotiate a full-time salary position with the club. I now work with the top 2 teams on both the men's and women's side and the basket gymnasiet program.
For my final year I do the same but start to also work with more of the younger teams. On a weekly basis, I coach 10 different teams.
My last year being the busiest but was also the year my son Istvan was born.
Now a new chapter begins, Katinka, Istvan and I move down to Copenhagen where Katinka will continue her research at Copenhagen University.
As of right now, I am without any formal work but I am not worried knowing that every thing will be just fine.
Actually I do have a job, it's called stay at home dad!
Thank you Sweden and especially the whole Högsbo Basket Family. You have been very friendly and have given me such a great learning experience over these past 3 years.
I hope you learned even half of what I have.
Tack.
Be Well,
Mike Reid
PS I would also like to say tack to Freddy at Cafe Kom where I would try to go every Saturday afternoon to play drums in the blues jam.